Naomi Threadgill

Naomi Threadgill writes about beauty the way she actually thinks about it, slowly and without much certainty. She has kept these notes since 2021.

I Said I Was Fine With It, Then I Wasn't, Then I Was Again - a changing face
A Changing Face

I Said I Was Fine With It, Then I Wasn’t, Then I Was Again

Acceptance is not a door you walk through once. I keep circling back to feelings I thought I had already worked through…

July 22, 2026
The Slowness I Did Not Earn - slow mornings
Slow Mornings

The Slowness I Did Not Earn

A sick day gave me the kind of slow morning I always thought I wanted, and it made me question what I…

July 18, 2026
Putting On Blush Because I Needed to Feel Like a Person Again - beauty & mood
Beauty & Mood

Putting On Blush Because I Needed to Feel Like a Person Again

I didn't reach for the blush that afternoon because I wanted color on my face. I reached for it because I needed…

July 15, 2026
What I Do When There Is Nowhere to Be - slow mornings
Slow Mornings

What I Do When There Is Nowhere to Be

A weekend morning with no plan should be simple, but it took me a while to learn how to actually be in…

July 10, 2026
The Days No One Sees My Face and I Still Do This - quiet rituals
Quiet Rituals

The Days No One Sees My Face and I Still Do This

On days with no meetings, no errands, nobody to see me at all, I still sit down and do the same small…

July 2, 2026
Trying to Look Like My Roommate for an Entire Semester - finding my look
Finding My Look

Trying to Look Like My Roommate for an Entire Semester

She had a way of doing her eyes that I decided I needed too, and for a whole semester I borrowed her…

June 30, 2026
What My Face Looks Like When I'm Angry and Won't Say So - beauty & mood
Beauty & Mood

What My Face Looks Like When I’m Angry and Won’t Say So

I caught myself applying concealer harder than usual and realized my hands were saying something my mouth hadn't gotten around to yet.

June 25, 2026
You Look Just Like Her, People Keep Saying - inherited beauty
Inherited Beauty

You Look Just Like Her, People Keep Saying

Strangers and relatives have been telling me I look like my mother since I was a teenager. I still do not know…

June 23, 2026
The Difference Between Looking Good and Looking Well - glow & radiance
Glow & Radiance

The Difference Between Looking Good and Looking Well

I used to think those were the same compliment, and then I started noticing my own face closely enough to realize they…

June 19, 2026
The Winter I Copied a Stranger's Whole Face - finding my look
Finding My Look

The Winter I Copied a Stranger’s Whole Face

For four months I tried to have the same face as a woman I had never met, down to the exact angle…

June 15, 2026